It Looks Like Courage. It Feels Like Fear.
The In-Between Life It Looks Like Courage. It Feels Like Fear. What is actually behind the decisions that look confident from the outside. May 2026 We made a video today. My daughter and I. Two people, one decision, a lot of fear going in the same direction. And we posted it anyway. This post exists […]
25 free tools for the in-between person
The In-Between Toolkit 25 free tools for the in-between person Everything I wish I had when I started building a second life alongside the first. May 2026 When I started building Plan B, I looked for tools. Frameworks, worksheets, anything that would help me think clearly while managing a full life at the same time. […]
Three signs your exhaustion has become dangerous.
The In-Between Three signs your exhaustion has become dangerous. There is a point where tiredness stops being a signal and starts being a warning. May 2026 It does not arrive loudly. It creeps in. Slowly, over weeks, over months, until one morning something feels different. Not wrong, exactly. Just hollow. And you cannot quite explain […]
Two kinds of tired.
The In-Between Two kinds of tired. And most people don’t know which one they’re carrying. May 2026 It hit me in the middle of the day. Everything was in its place. The dust was wiped. I was standing there, vacuum cleaner in hand, about to start. And then nothing. I just stood there. A wave […]
Sunday Morning
The In-Between Sunday morning. The alarm did not wake me. The news did. May 2026 I woke up this morning, made coffee, and opened my phone. Drone alert. Again. Eastern border. In Estonia, “eastern border” means 200 kilometers from where I’m sitting right now. Not 2000. Not 6000. Two hundred. The kind of distance you […]
The people who don’t come with you.
The In-Between The people who don’t come with you. They are not bad people. They are just people who belong to a chapter that is closing. April 2026 When you start changing direction, you expect resistance from the outside world. What you do not expect is how quietly, and how permanently, some relationships begin to […]
Leftovers for the New Life
What If We Don’t Make It in Time? | Two Hearts One Dream Some mornings you wake up frustrated before the day even starts. Not because you hate your life. Not because you’re unhappy. Actually, you love a lot of what you have. The people. The small rituals. The familiar streets. The life you built. […]
The Feeling You Cannot Name Yet
The In-Between The feeling you cannot name yet. You already know something is ending. You just do not have a word for it. First Post There is a specific kind of loneliness that comes before a big change. It is not the loneliness of being alone. It is the loneliness of knowing something that no […]